ð Book: The Catcher in the Rye by J.D.Salinger
Mini Muddled Rating
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ð The Muddled Summary
The Catcher In the Rye is a coming of age story that has sold over 65 million copies worldwide.
We follow 16-year-old Holden Caulfieldâs 3 day journey through 1940âs post war New York. He has been expelled from yet another prestigious prep school and doesnât want to return home just yet to face his disappointed parents. He rambles to us his every thought as he wanders as lonely as a ghost around the busy, chaotic, but ultimately lonely city, some thoughts very amusing, some very sad. This is the story of teenage loneliness, unprocessed trauma, societal expectations and the desire of wanting to hold on to childhood and innocence.
ð The Vibe
Scared, confused, invisible, chaotic, noise, anger, trauma, insincerity, lost.
ðĨ What Stuck with Me
Where do the ducks go in the winter when the lake is frozen solid? This really bothers Holden. The ducks always return in spring so they must be ok right? Holdenâs life at this point is full of unwanted change, this analogy really works here. He is questioning whether he will survive the harsh elements of transitioning into adulthood.
ðą Real Life Lesson
If we are parents of teenagers; make sure they are ok and not feeling too pressurised. Help them not to feel lost. If we are teenagers; talk to someone we can trust.
ð§Đ Mental Health Threads
âĒ Unprocessed trauma âĒ PTSD âĒ Sibling loss âĒ Suicide (contains discussions of suicide ideation) âĒ Loneliness âĒ Identity âĒ Fear of growing up âĒ Emotionally distant parents
ð Iâd Recommend This IfâĶ
If you are the parent to a teenager, I would certainly recommend reading this. This story reminds us to check in with our loveable balls of mixed emotions and uncertainty. We never really know what they are going through, remember being 16 yourself, well for me it truly sucked! On the outside, people wouldnât have known this. I was the quiet teen, always with her nose in a book, but screaming on the inside. This book reminds us to be kind to ourselves and our mini adults that we are blessed with the responsibility of. Weâve all been 16 right, so I would recommend everyone read this.
â ïļ Worth Knowing
There is perceived inappropriate adult behaviour toward a minor. Suicide is also mentioned.
ð Final Thoughts
This is the story of that horrible time we all go through, teetering on the tightrope between childhood and adulthood. Wishing you could go backwards, but you have no choice but to tiptoe delicately across the rope to an unknown destination.
ðŋ Comfort / Distress Balance (out of 5)
Emotionally heavy: ððððð (I just wanted to scoop Holden up and let him vent about the death of his brother and his school friend, tell him it will be ok)
Hopeful elements: ðĪïļðĪïļðĪïļ (Holdenâs relationship with his sister is beautiful and provides hope for his future)
Comfort read potential: â